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Shibari and some history

Shibari is a form of Japanese rope bondage that focuses on both physical and aesthetic elements of rope bondage.  Shibari is thought to be created from traditional Japanese and cultural influences.  The exact creation of shibari in history is not a clear subject.  There are many references to the history of shibari but no clear-cut answer as to its origins.  Cotton or hemp rope are common types of rope used during shibari.  These soft and natural fibers are ideal for the complex patterns used in shibari.


History of Shibari

Shibari has been linked to the ancient Japanese practice of hojojutsu.  Hojojutsu is a form of martial arts that uses ropes to restrain an opponent.  Shibari is also seen as being influenced by crafts and rituals in Japan where ropes were involved.  The Edo period saw an increase in Shibari’s popularity.  During this period, many art and entertainment techniques thrived.  The end of World War II was another time when the popularity of Shibari increased.  This was especially true with Western rope bondage fans who were attracted to Shibari.  Even today, shibari is seeing an increase in participants.  There are also new techniques, materials, and styles being invented today.  It is nice to see that many of the traditional and historical aspects of Shibari are still being honored to this day.

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Key characteristics of Shibari

The knots and patterns used and created by Shibari artists have two main characteristics.  The first is complexity, with many patterns being complex that require focus and more time to make sure it is done correctly.  The second is aesthetics, which is how it looks.  Many things are worn and done in fashion today that are directly related to the aesthetics characteristic.  This is no different with Shibari.  As with any aspect of BDSM and rope restraints, comfort and safety are mandatory.  Make sure you have safety measures in place in case an emergency arises.  The point of shibari is not to cause pain.  There is a reverence involved with shibari when it comes to the body.  Some shibari sessions hold onto the roots of being involved in rituals and ceremonies.


Common techniques used in Shibari

  • Kesa-gata - A more simple technique that is cross-binding.  It is when the wrists and ankles are tied together.

  • Uke-gata - Another technique involving tying of the wrists and ankles.  With this technique, the rope bottom or rope bunny is suspended horizontally.

  • Tate-gata - A technique that can involve the feet being elevated somehow.  Unlike some techniques, the subject is tied while being upright.



Benefits associated with Shibari

Part of shibari is the pleasure derived from it.  A rope top or rigger can gain pleasure from restraining someone.  Likewise, a rope bunny can gain pleasure from being restrained.  Because of the complexity and time some patterns use, it can become a form of relaxation and meditation.  Shibari also allows people to express themselves both artistically and creatively.  With the time it takes to complete some patterns, there can be a deeper intimacy between the rigger and bunny.


There are a few things that everyone should take into consideration for Shibari.  The first and most important to some people is consent and safety.  Consent is mandatory and can be taken away by any person involved.  Safety for all participants should be looked at so there is a level of comfortability.  There are some knots and patterns that are complex and should only be attempted by those with the knowledge to do so safely.  If a person likes a pattern, there are many ways to get trained and experienced.  One way is by participating in a Shibari training program.  The internet is also full of videos and certifications in Shibari.  Make sure the materials you use for shibari are meant for shibari.  Not all types of rope are the best to use with Shibari. 


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